Two Faced...

by Anonymous

I had a supervisor at one point who was a great guy. Always willing to listen, supportive, and willing to hear venting, feedback and suggestions. I felt very grateful to have a boss so open. Until one day I received a call from the director questioning me about my feelings on a co-worker that had been brought to her attention. I was dumbfounded because I had went to my above-stated supervisor the week before and expressed my feelings and told him that I was addressing the issue myself and just felt he should know. I then had gone to him at the beginning of the week and told him the issue had been resolved. So, when I received the call 3 DAYS LATER that the director had just been informed of the "issue" I didn't know how to respond. I went to my supervisor immediately after the call and he stated "I briefly mentioned it, I'm sorry. I didn't know she was going to say anything. I will be sure not to do this again".


Guess how well he did? I found out he was one of the worst gossips in the office and was using things like this to win brownie points with the director, acting like he was the one who resolved them, not us...

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Well Done
by: Jill R.

While I can see how that could feel quite frustrating... just take this as a learning experience.

Realize...

It's a great accomplishment for a co-worker to be able to take it upon themselves to resolve issues with other co-workers (in hopefully an appropriate manner which I'm assuming was the case) to nip any unnecessary stress or tension in the bud. So don't let this incident with your supervisor create what you worked hard to eliminate.

Too many people rely on venting and gossip alone but don't take any additional steps to actually resolve a conflict... so good for you!

Feel proud, maintain your own dignity, and know that as much as we'd like to, we can't will others to behave in the ways we wish they would.

Ignore the drama and enjoy the fact that you've squashed what could have turned into a festering, ugly issue.

Jill R.
OurStressfulLives.com

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